I am NOT a Boy!

Shocking, I know. Have you ever had that feeling where it's like your entire insides have fallen asleep... that tingly sensation that makes your breathe become strained and you get a little light-headed? Yeah, it's kind of like that... my life right now. Things have never been so wonderfully terrible and terribly wonderful. It's like I'm walking on daffodils.

It's like I've either made one of the best or one of the worst decisions I've made in a long time. And I'm going to go with best... just because I'm an optimist by nature. I will tell you something though. Being hopelessly romantic gets you nowhere as a girl. Let me stress, I am NOT a boy. However, if I were, I would be the best damn boy ever. Seriously. I am the best at thinking up awesome things guys should do for girls. It just doesn't transfer very well for things girls should do for guys. That's not the same playing field even.

So... I just now decided (like in the progress of writing this blog) that I will make a short(ish) list of things that I think are adorable romantic that guys do/can do/should do. I have a feeling this is going to be horribly cheesy. So, ahead of time I would like to apologize. Usually I'm much more sadistic.

Smile, tell girls WHY you like them, go on walks, flowers, random notes/text messages for no reason, show trust, tell jokes, have patience, make a big deal out of something that doesn't have to be... it shows you care, cook dinner, man up... most women really do love confidence, don't be arrogant, listen (as best you can), talk... no matter how much you think it's stupid to have to talk to people... it's a part of life... be willing to talk, don't take things too seriously... life comes quickly... take it as it is, treat her as an equal. I'm going to stop there.

And I'm sure, a million things exist that a girl can do for a guy. However, I am NOT a boy... therefore, I do now know what they want.

All that being said, I really don't know anything about anything. I'm just about as clueless as anyone. The first step to knowing everything is admitting that you know nothing. I know absolutely nothing. I never have, and I perhaps never will. But I am taking a little of my own advice right now. I'm taking each day as it comes... very happily. Today was great. I'll let you know about tomorrow.